Reason , Season , Lifetime :)
Wednesday, March 11, 2009 @ 11:28 PM
People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime . When you know which one it is , you will know what to do for that person. When someone is in your life for a REASON , it is usually to meet a need you have expressed .
They have come to assist you through a difficulty , to provide you with guidance and support , to aid you physically , emotionally or spiritually . They may seem like a godsend and they are . They are there for the reason you need them to be .
Then , without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time , this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end . Sometimes they die . Sometimes they walk away . Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand .
What we must realize is that our need has been met , our desire fulfilled , their work is done . The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on .
Some people come into your life for a SEASON , because your turn has come to share , grow or learn . They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh . They may teach you something you have never done . They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy . Believe it , it is real . But only for a season .
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons , things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation . Your job is to accept the lesson , love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life .
It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant. Thank you for being a part of my life , whether you were a reason , a season or a lifetime .
CHEERS ! :D